Why Does My Child Get Hyper at Night? How to Handle Bedtime Zoomies with Emma Wilking Ghelber

If you’ve ever found yourself googling, “why does my child get hyper at night” while your kids are bouncing off the walls and you’re desperately trying to get them into bed, this post is for you.

You’re not alone if you’ve ever felt like you’re managing a mini rave when it’s supposed to be wind-down time. Those wild bursts of energy, often called bedtime zoomies,” can make even the most organized bedtime routine for kids feel like a marathon.

In my latest episode of the Educated Parent podcast, I sat down with pediatric occupational therapist Emma Wilking Ghelber to figure out what’s really behind this phenomenon and, more importantly, what we can do about it. Emma’s insights were so practical and reassuring, I couldn’t wait to share them with you here.

Why Does My Child Get Hyper at Night?

First, let’s answer the million-dollar question: why does my child get hyper at night? It turns out, it’s not just that they’re trying to stall bedtime. There’s actually a physiological reason for this behavior.

Kids often get hyper before bed because their nervous systems are still in high gear from the day. They might not yet have the ability to self-regulate or recognize when they need to wind down. Instead, their bodies push them into a sort of overdrive – what we call “bedtime zoomies.” It’s their nervous system’s way of processing all the sensory input they’ve absorbed throughout the day.

Emma explained that kids naturally seek out movement, deep pressure, and sensory input to help their bodies feel grounded and calm. If they haven’t had enough of this during the day, it can come out as wild, chaotic energy at night. This is why you might see your kids leaping off furniture or wrestling with each other right when you’re hoping for some calm.

Understanding Bedtime Zoomies

So, what exactly are bedtime zoomies? Think of it as your child’s nervous system saying, “Hey, I need to reset before I can calm down.” This can look like jumping on the couch, sprinting laps around the living room, or suddenly deciding to play an intense game of hide-and-seek when you’ve just brushed their teeth.

These bedtime zoomies often peak right before bed because kids are still learning how to self-regulate. They might genuinely be trying to wind themselves down but lack the ability to do it in a more organized, productive way. 

That’s where we as parents come in.

Calming Activities for Kids Before Bed

The good news? You can work with your child’s natural impulses rather than fighting them. Emma shared some amazing calming activities for kids before bed that help channel all that excess energy in a way that actually settles their nervous system. 

Here are a few of my favorites:

  1. Log rolling across the floor – This might sound silly, but having your kids lie on the floor like a pencil and roll back and forth can provide full-body pressure, which helps calm their nervous system. It’s a great way to get their bodies moving in a controlled way.

  2. Heavy work – Emma recommends encouraging your kids to carry, push, or pull heavy objects, like moving couch cushions or piling up pillows for a fort. This kind of muscle work gives their bodies the deep pressure they crave and can help transition them into a calmer state.

  3. Animal walks – Think bear crawls, crab walks, or frog hops. These movements are fantastic for engaging your child’s core muscles and giving their bodies the input they need to regulate. Plus, they’re fun and can be a great thing to add into your bedtime routine for kids to help them transition from playtime to bedtime without it feeling like a hard stop.

Creating a Better Bedtime Routine for Kids

Of course, these calming activities for kids before bed are just one part of the puzzle. A well-structured bedtime routine for kids can also make a world of difference. This doesn’t have to be a rigid, hour-long affair. Even a few small changes, like dimming the lights, using calm voices, and incorporating deep pressure activities, can help your kids settle faster.

Emma and I also talked about the power of predictability. Kids thrive on knowing what’s coming next, so creating a consistent bedtime routine for kids can help their bodies and brains prepare for sleep. Whether it’s a bath, a bedtime story, or a little bit of snuggle time, the key is to keep it calm, consistent, and comforting.

Ready to Ditch the Bedtime Struggles?

If you’re tired of feeling like bedtime is a battle you’re always losing, give these strategies a try. Understanding “why does my child get hyper at night?” and addressing bedtime zoomies with calming activities for kids before bed can make a huge difference in your evenings – and your sanity.

For even more insights from Emma and a practical bedtime routine for kids you can use tonight, make sure to check out the full episode of the Educated Parent podcast

I promise it’ll help you feel more confident and less frustrated as you guide your kids through this tricky part of the day.

Listen now and take back your evenings.


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